May 31st, 2006Just a thought

General @ 10:16 pm

Life, whether in a foreign country or in one’s own country isn’t always easy. Once in a while, you encounter difficulties and feel all alone. It’s not easy but never give up. Suicide might seem to be the easiest way out but think of the happy times you’ve had, think of the things you still have to do in life and think of the family and friends that you’ll be leaving behind.. They are those people who love you, who want to help you. Please accept their help. Dealing with the pain all alone is too hard. After the rain ,comes the sun and maybe even a rainbow…

I’m telling this to anyone who might be reading my blog but I’m also telling this to myself. I was someone who took rash decisions when I was a teenager. It was a difficult period but I made it through somehow and I don’t regret being still here.
Let’s enjoy life.

May 31st, 2006A few minutes of silence

General @ 10:14 pm

I have started reading his blog around one month ago after he left a comment on my blog. After some time when I visited his blog again, I noticed that he deleted all his entries. Since I don’t know him, I had no idea what happened but today, upon reading Andy’s blog entry, I learned of the sad and tragic thing which happened one week ago.

I read a few comments here and there and it seems that some people don’t believe that what happened is true. Some are saying that it’s some kind of joke. Maybe it’s hard to accept but it’s a fact. It happened.

RIP Shawn.

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General, web things @ 8:22 pm

I got this from Carine’s blog. (link )

What’s Your Ideal Relationship?
Your Ideal Relationship is Serious Dating


You’re not ready to go walking down the aisle.
But you may be ready in a couple of years.
You prefer to date one on one, with a commitment.
And while chemistry is important, so is compatibility.

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Last week was the 1-week May hols. I didn’t go travelling. I spent my week with my bf and friends, watching dvds, shopping(which was horrible!too many people!), playing Warcraft 3 and working. I even cleaned my room. I went to a classmate’s room a few times to feed & talk to her cat while she was away in some other city in China. I love cats. I thought of getting a cat here but got hamsters instead. We aren’t allowed to keep pets in the dorm but hamsters are tiny and practically don’t make any noise. I won’t get caught. Some of the cleaning ladies had reported the cat to the administration some time ago but when they went to my friend’s room to check if it was true, they didn’t find the cat. My friend had kept her cat in my room during the inspection. :P Still, a few other persons working in the dorm know about my friend’s cat but they won’t tell on her. My friend moved to Building 1 not long ago and is now living on the 5th floor. One or two days after my friend came back from her holiday, her cat fell from the 5th floor while my friend was watching a movie. :( My friend only noticed that the cat was missing after the movie was over. She found the cat in the bushes, all bloody. The cat is now better but still at the vet’s. Hopefully, everything will be alright.

April 21st, 2006A little break for tonight

General @ 9:44 pm

I’ve been lugging around a small but heavy sports bag containing 4 books, two copybooks, a pocket dictionary,a big dictionary and some other things today. That’s the most I’ve ever carried to class ever since I entered university. I have managed to submit most of the essays as well as other homework today. I even did the homework for 第15课(from the 桥梁 book) in advance. That homework is due on Monday. So many pages in all… hehe.. I can’t help feeling proud of myself. Still, I also feel ashamed of myself for procrastinating this much. I’ve procrastinated a lot in the past but never to such an extent. There won’t be a second time. My right hand hurts from writing so much in such a short time. Tonight I’m going to take a break. :cloud9:
I’m currently doing a complete reinstall of Windows XP on Eni’s laptop. She came to find me earlier and left her laptop with me. I love anything to do with computers so it’s a pleasure for me to help her. In around 45 minutes, I’ll go to my friend’s room to watch TV for an hour and talk a bit. I’ll probably go to bed before midnight today. It has been so long since I last did that. :)

March 26th, 2006Crazy night

General, photos @ 10:41 pm

Yesterday night, my classmates, my main teacher & her husband, some friends of my classmates and I went to 和味 , a Japanese restaurant. I took only a few pics of food because I took so many food photos last time I went there. Therefore, I won’t be posting any food pics this time.There’s no point in posting pics of the same food. :)
It was a fun night.
with classmates and teacher_25march2006

I don’t know when we’ll be able to go out and have fun like that again. Most of us are going to work (part-time) soon and might not be free during weekends.
ah… and speaking of work, I’ve finally found a part-time job. :) More about that soon.

March 7th, 2006Feeling better

General, food, photos @ 10:28 pm

hate medicine timeI’ve been drinking my medicine like a good little girl (my bf and friends urged me to …. I hate medicine. :confusion: ) and sleeping quite a lot. Now, I’m feeling better. I didn’t like going to class looking very pale and being told that I look peaky. I think I’ll be okay by next week. The weather is quite good too. It’s not as warm as I want it to be but it’s getting there. :) One or two more weeks and it’s goodbye to coats, goodbye to cold weather. :razz: (ah…that’s a friend of mine in the small pic!)

A few pics:

Eating shuijiao at 大娘水饺 (daniang shuijiao) … :
shui jiao
I don’t see what the fuss is all about.. The shuijiao I ordered were not very good.

Des and Richard gave me some chocs:
chocs from Des and Richard

Des brought Prego pasta sauce and kaya from Singapore:
prego_kaya
I love Kaya!! :mrgreen: (I have a sweet tooth. :flowers: )I’ll be buying loads of this stuff when I go to Singapore during my summer holidays.

Eni and Caicai (from Mongolia) invited us for lunch:
eni and caicai_food

Dinner in Rosemary’s room:
rosemary_wangye_meal
Yummy food!:D

General, Shanghai, photos @ 7:54 pm

It seems like we are reaching the end of winter. It was a sunny day yesterday!:D It was around 17° C yesterday morning. I was even able to go out in a skirt and turtleneck sweater instead of the usual jeans,sweater,scarf and long coat. The temperature dropped to around 10° C at night but it was still okay because I had brought a light jacket with me. However,it’s a bit rainy today and cold(9° C right now). I read on weather.com that it will still rain tomorrow :( Noooooooooo. :confusion:

I went out with some friends yesterday and while in the bus, I kept staring outside until a sentence (from radio program) caught my attention : “…相爱的人在一起,每天都是情人节…” .
Sure, if people who love each other are together, everyday can be like Valentine’s Day. Why do we need to have a special day in the year for love? Maybe it’s because some people don’t have much time (work,studies,etc..) to celebrate, to show their special someone how much they love them? It might be the only day during which some couples celebrate their love. For some people, Valentine’s Day is the only day their boyfriends or husbands remember to give them flowers, sweet cards,etc. :confusion: I think that Valentine’s Day is over commercialized. Prices for roses and chocolates go up. Since a few weeks now, chocolates in heart-shaped boxes, flowers and big red hearts have made their way into many stores.
Personally, I find it no big deal whether I celebrate Valentine’s Day or not. Just being with my special someone is enough. I prefer romance to be spontaneous and not planned. I don’t want my bf to give me presents only because it’s Valentine’s Day. Some guys don’t understand it but it’s the little things they do which count.
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General @ 2:55 pm

I still have a few more days until I leave Mauritius for Shanghai. I’m taking the plane next Sunday (4th Sept) and will reach Shanghai on Monday. I’m really enjoying my holidays here. Some of my friends who are studying abroad are also on hols and are back to Mauritius. It felt great seeing them again and catching up on the good old times. I got to meet new people too. :) There are a few friends with whom I still haven’t met up yet but hopefully, I’ll be able to do so by next week. As much as I’m enjoying myself here, I have to admit that I’m looking forward to going back to Shanghai.

I’ve been sick since two weeks now but still going out almost everyday. Anything up to a few hours is fine with me.
I went to the beach with a few friends earlier this week. I had forgotten all about that plan to go to the beach and was reminded of it the night before. I almost said no because I wasn’t feeling well but one of my friends is going back to Canada soon and I was thinking that it would be our last outing together. I sure don’t regret going. I have some new pics but I’ll be posting them after getting the go-ahead from my friends first. Should be before the end of next week.
I’ve been to Caudan so many times last week; lunch, dinner, shopping for gifts, sitting at Sunset Café drinking ice tea and talking… I’m getting a bit sick of that place now. :roll:
I didn’t go stay at CY’s place these last two weekends. I don’t want her to fall sick too. Also no camping for me. I was waiting to see if I got any better but in the end, the plan was cancelled. The last thing I’d want is make all my friends sick too.

The thing is, I’m not sure what’s the matter with me. I had a runny nose the first few days only and now, the only problem is that I’m coughing a lot.
Whenever I have my coughing fits (which is very often), all I need to do is pop a sweet into my mouth. If I don’t do that, I keep on coughing until I get a stomach ache, cannot breathe,or even worse,throw up. Yesterday, my dad was threatening to make me go see the doctor. My room is next to his and he can’t sleep well at night because I keep coughing. I hate medicine. I can’t even swallow pills. I’ve never been able to. I always have to break the pill into pieces or crush it to powder first. If I break the pills into small pieces, I still need like one litre of water to be able to swallow the small pieces, not to mention having to go to the toilet afterwards. How do people manage to swallow those pills? argh.. Anyway, I will go see the doctor today. yeah finally..
How not to? .. after being lectured for 40mins on MSN yesterday.. until I cried. A few exclamation marks when chatting on msn and it seemed to me that the person was yelling at me. I’m so weak… :???: Somehow, he can reduce me to tears so easily. :weeping: Well now, I feel ashamed for not taking good care of myself.
Still, lecturing me like that must mean that he cares so I don’t feel that bad now. :wink:

–edited after seeing the doctor–
The doctor said that my throat is all red and bla bla bla.. I didn’t catch the rest. He threw in a few medical terms here and there. He said something about a throat infection. Anyway, he told me that I should have gone to see a doctor earlier.

He said that I can continue drinking the cough medicine I already have at home and prescribed some antibiotics. The antibiotics are in capsule form.
OMG. How to swallow that thing? Each capsule is like 1.5 cm long. Since I cannot swallow it, all I can do is open the capsule , put the powder on a spoon, add some water and drink. It tastes awful so I drink more water afterwards to wash away that taste. :???: :shock: I need to take one capsule three times a day for 5 days. Apparently, I need some vitamins too. I haven’t been eating enough fruits lately.
My mum was with me and she told the doctor that I was dieting and not eating rice,etc. All I did was stop eating rice. I still occasionally eat things like pizza. It seems that for the Chinese people, rice is important. The doctor then proceeded to tell me that I need to have a healthy diet and that there’s nothing wrong with eating some rice. He talked to me like I was some naughty kid. :???: He also made a comment about my navel piercing which he saw when doing the examination. (I had to lift my t-shirt up a little bit.) He said something about how dangerous it was to have a piercing done and that there are risks of infections. Well I told him that I have my piercing since years already and that there have been no problems at all. The old doctor ignored what I said and just talked to my mum. bah..
Anyway I’ll be taking my cough medicines (a Chinese & a Western one), the antibiotics and also drink more water. The last part is going to be the hardest. I don’t usually drink a lot of water. :???:
ah..I nearly forgot. I also ‘have’ to drink this orange+ginger tea at night. It is a very concentrated tea and tastes bad.
I think I’ve done too many things this hols, gone out too much. Friends are important but I shouldn’t neglect my health too. No going out for a day or two I guess. I need rest more.


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