Having already exchanged I love yous…
Girl: Why do you love me? :love:
Guy: Because you love me.
Girl: :confusion: :shock: :no: :roll: :worried:

I wonder how people would react if they got such an answer…
Would you love someone just because that person loves you?
Would you say “Me too” just because your bf/gf tells you ‘I love you’ ? Or would you say it only if you really love that person ?
Personally, I feel that there’s no obligation to say those 3 little words when you are in a relationship. Those 3 words mean a lot and should only be said when you are sincere.

15 Responses to “Why do you love me?”

  • 1
    Chui

    :shock: :shock: :shock:
    *tsk’s heavily & rapidly*
    that is a NO NO!! :no: :no: :no: :no: :no: :no:
    if i heard that i’d be torn between beating the stuffing out of him or ” :weeping: :weeping: ”

    i guess maybe give ‘em the benefit of the doubt & question what (the hell!!) exactly they mean by that?(!) just in case…maybe there is some romantic, logical explanation?? :confusion: …men.

    i guess, on the bright side :eureka: , at least it wasn’t “thanks” :razz:

  • 2
    yusheng

    Or maybe girls should just stop asking questions like “why do you love me?” Really, how many boys do you know can articulately answer that question even if they truly did love the girl.

  • 3
    Chui

    :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
    sorry i just read “ANNE”’s reply
    *giggles* can’t stop laughing…what vulgar language. Its like a script for trailer-park-trash sitcom :roll: Sheesh…she sure is riled up, throwing wild ridiculous (funny) accusations like that.
    sorry 2 bring it up again…but i couldn’t stop laughing [at the mental image projected from that idiotic garble] ok ok…i’ll leave you alone now.

    oh yeah
    and get well soon aline!! :flowers:

  • 4
    aline

    Guys ask that question too… not just girls.

    I think it’s better to reply truthfully that they cannot explain why they love…and it’s just their heart telling them that it’s really love.

  • 5
    Will

    Yeah, not an easy one to answer, that question.

    It (the words) always ends up coming out not the way it was intended. Oh well…

    Not really a question one can answer very quickly. Much thought is needed. And even then it is still quite difficult to answer.

  • 6
    anne

    no i mean like where i live and shit. i don`t want people knowin` my business.

  • 7
    anne

    any of ya`ll got something to say to me, ya`ll im me at aiyahishanne or ya`ll come comment me or just email me. don`t be no pussy and say it on here. cause what ya`ll gotta` say involvin` me. COME TO ME.

  • 8
    becka

    :party: Congratulations Aline, you won the giveaway at my website :flowers: simplycute.us :flowers: :party: I am mailing it out tomarrow my dear I do hope it reaches you.

    Take care, I am loving this new layout of yours.
    :love: *hugs* Becka :love:

  • 9
    Myles

    Asking each other why we love each other isn’t much of a big deal. Maybe it’s just a subtle nudge from the heart to affirm the love between two people. It’s difficult to express the reason we love because it’s power and emotion supersedes all reason and logic. If some girl asked me the same, I’d probably just say “I just do, with no strings attached.”

  • 10
    carine

    I’ve never got this as an answer and if I get it from him I will be mad (unless it is said in a joking manner).

    I prefer hearing the 3 words ‘I need you’ more than ‘I love you’ … :flowers:

  • 11
    Gretch

    wow. that conversation really hurts. i wouldn’t – so wouldn’t appreciate that reply!!! hmph. i agree that those 3 little words should only be spoken with sincerity. but with my bf and i, we always say it. hehe. there’s something comforting, soothing, and a feeling of security that comes when my sweetie tells me that… :) anyways, take care aline!

  • 12
    Kaine

    humm quite a reply :laugh: well i would only tell these words only if i was really in love, cause she would find out pretty quickly (i’m bad at lying :mrgreen: ) but i think it’s important to say it whenever you can wherever appropriate cause u never know maybe she’ll get into an accident, lose her memory…(argh maybe i should cut on those kdrama ^_^) seriously no matter how you see these words it just feels good to be said those, am i right? but again saying those too often and taking them too lightly is no good

    i wonder if there’re guys like that :no:
    Guy: Do you love me?.
    Girl: yes :love:
    Guy: Great, bring me one beer and chips, soccer’s gonna start :laughing:

  • 13
    Refnulf

    The words “I love you” are important to a relationship. People are mostly insecure, it’s true that those words do not make insecurity go away, but it helps. A person would welcome those words from the one he or she loves, unless of course they are afraid of committment or there is something wrong with the relationship.

    My gf has a hard time saying those words to me, but I feel it’s because of the way she was brought up. No hugs in the family, no physical contact of any type between members of the family, no one talks about their feelings at all. It’s understandable, but she does say it when it matters most. And I know for a fact that her love is true :P

  • 14
    Shannon

    I need help! My boyfriend asked me why I love him. I know I do love him, I love him with all my heart! But I dont know what to say. I replied “Just because I do” and he said why. I dont know how to explain it, I have been thinking about for hours, I have come up with no answers. What do I say to him? Please help me!!!

  • 15
    roboo

    tell him u jus kno an u can feel it inside:wink:

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