June 27th, 2004“Need” a GF?男人! hmmph!
Why is it that certain guys ‘need’ a girlfriend? I don’t understand.
I’ve heard “‘I don’t have a girlfriend right now. Already broke up. I will look for one now… ” one time too many and it really irks me.
Is it that difficult to stay single? I don’t like it when people go out with others just for the sake of having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Where is love in all that?
I recently had a fight with a good friend of mine. Even if he’s a good friend, I can’t pretend to be blind and deaf when he does certain things.
我最讨厌你们男人。男人太容易变心。 一会儿爱这个，一会儿爱那个。 真气死我。在这世界上，还有人是真心的吗？
Maybe some girls are like that too. I don’t know. I’m only talking about certain guys i know. Not all guys are like that. I know, I know.
Don’t jump down my throat. I’m already very annoyed.
If you don’t understand the chinese words, I’m sorry. Sometimes when I want to say certain things, I just can’t find the words in English,French or Creole.
Yeah I agree, I think some people are just lonely and think having a gf/bf will make everything right in their life, or they think they are more socially acceptable if they have a partner, so they find “love” for all the wrong reasons with the first person that shows any interest in them, and of course it isn’t real love and doesn’t normally work out. Better to let life be as it is, and if and when love comes then it will be true love, not forced love.
啊呀! 不要这样说, 这个世界每个男人都不是相同地! 也许你的朋友还没找到个真心女孩!!!
We must all try try try till we get the right one. Males are in fact emotionally weaker and need constant moral support even if we don’t show it quite often.
I also don’t understand why. Maybe they want to be seen with a girl/guy (?)… maybe influenced by the society (?).. wo ye bu zhitao!
well..my opinion ’bout this is some people can’t take the burden of being alone..in this sense single. They feel like they need someone constantly by their side to hold them up just in case they fall..but I guess that’s just human nature, when some people are weaker emotionally than others..
either that or they just want to console themselves that finding a replacement would be pretty simple..oh well, life’s just like that..don’t worry ’bout it
I think if you go out with those types of intentions your not really looking for love, your looking more for affection, and they are two totally seperate things. After getting out of a relationship it seems like your out of routine when your alone at a time that you would usually be with someone else. Some people accept these times as a part of life, relationships come and go, but some just want to be with another person for the sake of getting affection. I’m not going to say whether i think one is better than the other but thats just the way alot of people operate.
Hey,not all guys are so fickled-minded,Aline.There are also good and faithful guys out there.
Maybe that is what people mean by having a sense of insecurity
There are girls like that… and it’s definitely annoying to here people say stuff like that.
I’m gonna enjoy my single life for as long as it lasts. Here’s to all the single people out there!
(I really wanted to use that smiley, lol)
haha! ure rite! good point! but knw wot? i dont see any chinese writings:no: jus small “square families”:???:
not all guys r like that, being single is fine with me & millions of guyz .. but i do notice all my gurlfrens who has platonic relationship wif close guy is just impossible, sooner or later they get together
anyway thanks for the gmail .. woohoo! luving it
err…i hate people like that, some girls are like that too
. it pisses me off.